Finding motivation & Empowerment as a Single parent
My journey as a single mother has been filled with ups and downs. There have been moments of joy, success, and love, but also occasions of doubt, fear, and uncertainty. Through it all, I've discovered a source of strength and resilience within myself that I never knew existed. Practicing mindfulness such as praying, meditating, and journaling has incorporated a sense of inner peace among the chaos of life. Learning to prioritize self-care has been an ongoing work in progress for me. Yet, being more intentional with implementing time for meditation, exercise, or just enjoying a movie to take care of myself is a necessity to being the best version of me. I hope my words of motivation and encouragement based on my personal experiences will help someone else.
Despite the challenges I've faced, I realize that I am stronger than I ever imagined. From sleepless nights to balancing work and parenting responsibilities, I tapped into an internal strength to navigate the complexities of single motherhood. The love I have for my child knows no bounds. It's a love that pushes me forward, even on the toughest days. Seeing the smiles on my child’s face and feeling a warm embrace reminds me that every sacrifice was worth it. I am raising my child to be his best version of himself. By demonstrating resistance, purpose, and compassion, I pray to instill these values in my child to equip him to overcome any obstacles he will face in his life.
Single mothers, mothers, and parents; you are not alone; no parent is perfect. There’s no handbook, no guidelines, just you taking one day at a time. I came to the realization that we are all just trying to figure it out and do the best we can. And that’s okay. Accepting my imperfections and learning from my mistakes has been an aha experience. I’ve learned isolation is not the key. It is important to reach out to others for support. It’s okay to lean on family, friends, and fellow mothers to develop a core supportive community. This was instrumental in helping me navigate through the challenges as a single parent.
As a single mother, I realized I didn’t have to put my dreams on hold. I just had to prioritize my time management. I wasn’t willing to sacrifice my time with my child, but I was willing to sacrifice sleep and time with others to achieve my goals. I was able to further my education, advance my career, and pursue my dream of creating passive income. Which eventually gave me the ability to provide more for my child and spend more time together. This has allowed me to be present for all my child’s academic and athletic events. This is priceless.
Embrace the journey and your time with your child. Make good memories. Focus on the present and trust in your abilities, I've found the strength and motivation to keep moving forward, no matter what lies ahead. I am continuously evolving, learning, and growing. While the road may be tough at times, I'm driven by a deep sense of purpose and love for my child. Parenting is a journey that is not always easy, but it is a blessing and rewarding which you shouldn’t take for granite. I am grateful for my journey because I feel I can achieve anything now.
